Liking


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Liking.
Some people know this about me but everyone else should I like girls; a lot. In communication theory there is the halo effect I am a believer in the halo affect, a halo effect occurs when one positive characteristic of a person dominates the way that person is viewed by others often it is looks. And it plays a big way in the way I interact with people sometimes I do it then worst situations. One time when I started a new job I choice the most pretty girl in the class and decided to sit next her. But it turned out that she had a boy friend and the affection was not returned bad decision. In my college french class I sat next to the prettiest girl in this class on purpose again. But it turned out that she had a boyfriend but she was nice and even gave me a ride home one time; I still think I have a shot at her. And one time at my other job I actually got to go on a date with the prettiest girl in the store but I had to move and did not have a car so it did not work out.
The moral of the story is that for most of my life I have only sit next to the pretty girls and every one else does not matter. But I have noticed that I am not the only that does this every year during my HBCU experience I saw the opposite. If some guy that was ugly joined one of the groups that was seen as doing good on campus then he was seen as good looking all of a sudden all the women wanted him when the year before that me and him where on the same level of getting women. His handsomeness was all of a sudden on steroids. So in my experience good looking is good and good is good looking.

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